Sometimes when people walk in and out of our lives it can be confusing and lead to deep emotions that make us question our worth or our ability to trust. Whether this is a romantic heartbreak, a friendship break up, or a separation due to uncontrollable circumstances. It can be painful regardless.
In Laura Lynne Jackson’s book ‘Signs’ she talks about timelines and why some people walk out of our lives. “Sometimes our highest path takes us away from someone we romantically love or think we love, simply because they aren’t ready to change paths with us. We need to realize that even if we choose a path that doesn’t include them, that doesn’t mean we no longer love them, or that our time together wasn’t ‘the right path.’ We cross into each other’s path for a reason – to teach each other useful lessons and help each other grow. But sometimes, in order to keep growing, we have to venture into a new, higher path by ourselves.”
She goes on to talk about how you can love someone but still not spend your life with them. Sometimes things aren’t meant to be because they are no longer serving your highest good.
If we can reframe our mindset to believe that anything that is happening to you is actually happening for you, then we can understand that we are working with the universe and not against it. Still take time to grieve and feel the sadness from losing someone. We are human after all, and we were gifted with emotions. But just remember, something that is better suited to your higher timeline and frequency is out there. And this will bring you even more joy, happiness and important lessons.
One of the best things we can do for ourselves is to forgive and release the past. This will put you on the fast track to a higher frequency and all of the abundance that is for you in the universe.
Start by journaling your thoughts and feelings every day. This will help release some of your daily emotions so you don’t have to hold on to them. Next, practice gratitude for all of the wonderful things in your life, big and small. And when you’re ready, allow yourself to forgive the people in your life and to forgive yourself. You can do this by thinking of that person and understanding that their intention may have been different than their action, and realize that they were acting out of fear or a lack of self love. Lift your light and theirs to help you both heal.
The more we focus our energy towards what we want, the more we can heal and move forward with our lives. And always remember, life is happening for you.